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KC 2.0 - Why the new blog title?

I should probably explain the desire to create a new blog title - KC 2.0.   In many ways, getting a divorce has made me feel like I am starting my life over.   It feels like I moved to a new city away from my family and I know no one.  It has truly made me feel isolated in a way that I have never felt before.  Even on the most painful and lonely days, I know that this is a second chance to make the life I truly want. Previously, I was completely unaware of the societal pressures affecting my life decisions or the fact achieving certain life milestones in a certain order does not automatically bring you happiness.  My order was: college, PT degree, build successful career, get married, buy a house and have kids.  It took me 2 years to find a house that I wanted to buy - I thought it would bring so much joy.  I thought it would change everything.   Now, I often sit reading, thinking, and eating meals alone wondering how I can truly bring happiness...